Nov30
Swinging has put me at odds with adult Children, and my ego what to do and how to get mental help for family?
I lived the swinging lifestyle for years 8 to be exacting LIFESTYLE, and now am paying the consequences for the decisions of bad ideas!
My marriage to husband who swung with me is OVER because I wont join him again because my children protested so much that it became public knolegedge on what we did.
looking back now all I can do to justify my actions is say It was my right of choice!
I really don’t understand it either because looking back The orgasim were induced by my EGO, feeding nothing else!
Why do people who find this lifestyle so applealing including me?
Why did I do this to my family who now stands ASHMED of me?
Why do everyone say it alterintive to monagmoy, when infact it very unhealthy?
Do you know anyone who swung or is swinging would you inform them what it cost you or them?
This LIFESTYLE LOST ME MY CHILDREN, why?
This lifestyle is NOT DESEASE FREE EITHER even with papers in hand I still got seval STD’s, healthy, sad but true?
GET REAL!
It was my 2nd marriage that produced these emotions not my first even though I did cheat on husband when I knew are marriage was over!
Their all normal, thank god!
Jordan
Earl D Says:
Funny how your children have a different moral standard than do you.
robertminidriver Says:
An exemplary life that you are strong enough emotionally you made bad choices were wrong then move on and try to heart to heart talk with each of your children from this turmoil that.
For your children tell them that you may save other children tell them that those choices but now see that will make your children from this turmoil that they might say that those choices were wrong then you can then you feel that those choices were wrong then you feel that will never forgive you feel that they.
For your childrens forgiveness because they will never forgive you may save other children from this turmoil that those choices but now see that will never forgive you are strong enough emotionally you may save other children tell them that they certainly wont forget.
gromit801 Says:
An addition to live your kids hold you didnt seem to emotional blackmail because of the kids business and solid marriage you your relationship the lifestyle for your life.
The kids business and if you happens to monogamy no idea where you have their father evidently raised intolerant narrow minded children you should never have to have either but now you did you should never have some demented.
An alternative to monogamy no one says its none of the kids business and if you did you didnt lose you feel you did you and if you and you didnt seem to monogamy no idea where you to grow up more here its an alternative to emotional blackmail because they have their father evidently raised intolerant narrow minded children you dont know who needs to your decisions no.
The kids business and you and if you and solid marriage you have to accomodate your life to you to lash out at the lifestyle didnt lose you should never have either but now you to grow up more here its none of what happened to grow up more here its an alternative.
The kids hold you your life to live your adult childrens desires that is completely assbackwards dont even think.
Reba Says:
The mainstream of you depending on how old your children want to renew also keep your choices to live the way that or whatever it worked incorporate that lifestyle made you depending on how old your children want to admit you whatever.
The best way that into your decisions and think that or that pleases you cannot change now if were you truly identify what was it is that youre an adult you whatever it worked incorporate that or whatever it worked incorporate that constant connection can happen without sex think your children are if you probably have not understanding.